Thank you for taking the time to write out a detailed response. I think the issue is with LG and not Onkyo. Only because turning the Onkyo on/off does not resolve but when I turn LG on/off then the data is sent. My resolution was to use a logitech Harmony Hub. The hub has been programmed to turn on all devices (TV, receiver, and sub) at the same time. The hub sits in the closet with the equipment and has a remote that possible operates on Bluetooth. An external IR device is used to send signal to the TV.
My main concern was how to make the system easy for my wife to use. The option was either turn on LG then turn off and then turn back on or use the Harmony remote to turn all on then use LG remote for all other functions.
On a side note: I only use the apps on the LG. I do not use cable or an antennae. Is there any way for the LG to be set that when it turns on the home (app) screen is shown? The one option to set only shows cable, antennae, or LG channels. I programmed the shortcuts in the remote (i.e. 1=Peacock) but it is still annoying that every time I turn on the TV I have to hit home.